When Captain and I were whisking away on ski weekends with a bag thrown over our shoulders, I day dreamed about skiing with our future children.
Somehow I forgot to daydream about the impossibly overloaded luggage carts, overstuffed car, and children capable of putting everything on themselves when asked by their ski instructors, but capable of nothing when they see me.
I didn’t know that for ski trips each child would require two stuffies in addition to their lovie, plus RB’s huge music machine that is meant to attach to a crib, which we no longer need.
As our luggage cart obstructed the lobby, I took stock of the next two luggage carts. That family wasn’t traveling light either. They had a snoo bassinet and a full-size high chair.
We don’t need a high chair, so there’s room for extra stuffies.
I own them, so if not now, then when?
This was a miracle year. It is the first year we all skied together the four of us. We rode the lift together and went down fun, blue-square trails. Not quite at the speed I would choose, but getting there.
The second best part after skiing was the outdoor hot tub/pool situation.
Skiing is how Captain and I met, and sitting in the hot tub together is a little bit of heaven. I sipped my beer and gazed at our children in the pool. I said to Captain,
“Can you believe this is how it started and now look at us?”
“Not an entirely unpredictable trajectory.”
Right.
I felt the same way after giving birth to BB. It was UNBELIEVABLE, yet millions of people have been giving birth for millions of years.
We’re just one of many couples falling in love in a hot tub and returning to it with the consequences.
My joy was splashed away the minute our children took to deep-sea swimming in the hot tub. There are age rules for hot tubs, but I don’t think that’s necessary. The only rule should be:
“Do you need goggles for the hot tub?”
“Yes?”
“YOU’RE NOT ALLOWED.”
And parents aren’t allowed in ski school. When I say it was amazing to ski together the four of us, it was amazing to ski together from 2pm-3pm.
And it was amazing to ski harder and faster with Captain the rest of the time.
I have perfected getting RB on the chairlift. It only took one time with her dangling down to make sure that didn’t happen again.
This is all thanks to wonderful instruction from ski school.
As I was putting BB to bed, she snuggled up to me and said,
“I’m lucky you’re my mama.”
After I was done melting, I asked,
“I’m lucky! What made you say that?”
“You’re not a mean ski instructor.”
“You had a mean ski instructor?!!”
“NO! The ski instructors are so nice. But some kids have to go from their really nice ski instructors to their mean, ski-instructor parents. I hear them yelling at their kids. And you just say, ‘Lead the way!'”
This is one of the very good reasons we pay for ski school. I can keep the mean, ski-instructor parent dormant inside me.
Of course the minute BB saw RB skiing, she didn’t attempt to hold her tongue. BB yelled,
“Turn RB! Lean forward. You have to stay forward!”
At which point RB told me,
“My tummy hurts, I need to go potty NOW.”
RB and I zipped down the mountain faster than BB would ever want to go. RB skied straight, leaned back, took full advantage of her wedge and we made it to the bathroom. We’ve got the skills we need.
Afterwards BB told me,
“At ski school they say: ‘No pee. No ski.'”
I have a new life motto.
Good Times with Jess 